Lambsbutt,
I hear a lot from those like you who speak of the gay rights band wagon. Is that the same as the civil rights movement and the blacks pushing their agenda in the '60s, which so many white people despised and resisted? Be proud. And arrogant. It's America. Those die-hard racists from the '60s are just that. Dying. And good riddance to them. The world is changing, and those who hate gays and discriminate against them - or are glad they are being discriminated against - are becoming fewer and fewer. Thankfully. They are 'dead men walking" and won't be around in another generation.
I've never felt a gay agenda being forced on me, isn't that amazing? And even if there is a small vocal and active group 'pushing' gay rights, that isn't any different from all of the other rights' movements, for women, blacks, immigrants, etc.