Irregardless of what apostate churches say or do, God says no to homosexuality AND to those who approve of it.
"For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven
against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men . . .
For even their women exchanged the natural use
for what is against nature (lesbianism).
Likewise also the men ...burning in their lust for one another,
men with men committing what is shameful (homosexuality) . . .
that those who practice these things are worthy of death,
and not only those who do the same
but also those who approve of those who practice them!"
(Romans 1:18, 26, 27, 32)
The answer for homosexuals is the same as for anyone else desiring to avoid judgment after they die (Hebrews 9:27). And it is not more will power.
Jesus said, "you must be born again".