I know Clergy are mandated here in California but are Elders considered Clergy?
Father is on drugs and since confessed. He was df'ed I think last week. Kids say the mom is protecting him. They have family support but parents don't want them with family. I don't understand these people!
According to the oldest daughter he attacked her in front of her minor sisters. He was verbally and emotionally absuive to her for a year now. According to the daughter it was all her life. The siblings say they only witnessed it this last year or so since she was df'ed. Father is sick in the head to say the least.
I believe the oldest daughter was telling on the father (to the elders) the entire year and they did nothing but encourage her. One elder was said to have moved from the congregation because the other elders refused to listen to him and report the abuse. I believe he reported it on his own but I cannot be sure.
The daughter was reinstated recently and the father told her "Jehovah forgave you but you're gonna have to work a lot harder for me to forgive you." Father of the year, Right! That is just a little glimpse into this man's sickness. He gets off on controlling his family. Now he has added drugs to the mix.
Anyways, I am wondering if the elders are obligated to report. If so they should have a long time ago when the daughter first started telling them about the father's abuse. Now she is telling anyone who will listen about her mom and dad. I'm wondering if congregation gossip and the dad being df'ed would finally push the elders to call CPS or police.