What is it with so many born-in jw men being so shallow and selfish! They only care about looks and what they can get and have no idea that to attract an attractive partner they have to have some sort of attraction. Case in point: an uneducated jw guy folding junk mail for a living. He's let himself go and gained a lot of weight, does nothing to improve himself, is selfish and deceitful. He chases the drop dead gorgeous, intelligent, interesting, athletic, popular Russian sister. He just wants her for himselfto possess because she's beautiful, with no concept that he would have to offer her something. That he too needs to educate himself and look after himself. He felt entitled to her or a girl like her because, and I quote, "I've never been dfd or reproved and I have privileges in the congregation, so why can't I get a sister who looks like a super model?" And try to explain that to get a glamorous woman you need to either be rich, have a great personality, incredibly funny or look like Brad Pitt. But it was all about what he could get, and so many jw guys were like that, especially once they reached 30 and were still single and never had a girlfriend.
The above-average looking sister from the next hall actually did like him and she too had a lot going for her, but when she asked him out she turned him down because, and I quote, "she's not good looking enough."
Why do so many jw males feel entitled to a fabulous beauty without having to make themselves into better people?
I knew another brother who was pretty repulsive who had the hot girl after him. He couldnt stand her personality and thought her so stupid but he married her anyway because she looked like a model. I guess jw men expect the good looking girls to fawn over them because there are no decent men left in the congregation.