When I was a teenager, one of the publications stated that a wife had to 'subjugate' herself to her husband. I had to look that word up.
subjugate - verb: bring under domination or control, especially by conquest. eg. "the invaders had soon subjugated most of the native population"
synonyms: conquer, vanquish, defeat, crush, quash, bring someone to their knees, enslave, subdue, suppress
My immediate reaction was "Hell No! I ain't doin' this shiite!"
I was watching this play out in my own life between my parents and it was NOT working at all. My Mom abdicated all responsibility for herself and her life. Her individuality, her personality were slowly withering away... and she was miserable.