Here is the letter which states, its Forbidden to bring your brother to court.
A very big thank you to the person who, scanned and resized this letter for me!!!!!!
First page of letter,
http://hometown.aol.com/cassilines/myhomepage/photo.html
Second page of letter,
http://hometown.aol.com/maximumflash/myhomepage/photo.html
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When the pain of being where we are, becomes greater than our fear of letting go...we will risk and heal and grow.