Update: They keep trying to contact me. Seems, I am an outlet for their psychosis. If I let them in a little, they try to take a yard. I've been able to get them off the phone quickly, but then some have turned to e-mail to get to me. Last straw was several e-mails that were "cut and pastes" from JW-land, after coming to several truces on their absolutlely knowing how much I disagree with the JWs, think it's a cult, and them agreeing that they woudl NOT EVER AGAIN try to convert me.
So . . . .I put the abusive people in my life on a barge and sent them out to sea. Well, figuratively. I had to block them from my e-mail and facebook. Time to take a sanity break. I am feeling better. Cutting peopel off is somethign I am against, becuase of the disfellowshipping. But, my cutting off of these toxic people is truly a personal decision. It is not organizationally based. This has been a very difficult month and a freeing month for me, at the same time. Peace.