Love and sex are different, but if you truly love your marriage mate, you will use sex to express that love.
Denying your partner sex is a serious sign of trouble, and means you dont love them.
Long ago, I found that non-sexual expressions of endearment and love could not express the deep love for Windrider that I have. Lovemaking did allow me to convey to her my deep love for her, and for me to feel her deep love for me.
Our love deepened wven further, to the extent that lovemaking could not even espress that deeper depth. Then we found a way of expressing that deeper love yet even more; a way of lovemaking that is so very deep that it is spiritual.
Words cannot convey the depth of love I feel for Windrider and how it deepens every day. She is my soulmate, my best friend, the most wonderful lover and fiance, and she is my everything. I wish I could find the words to tell her that. The physical separation we must endure now does not allow lovemaking, and it is so hard not to have a way of telling her how much I truly love her and need her forever.
Richard