We are the decisions we make. So some say. We are thrown into the world and left to make of it what we will. Non trias thinks there is some truth to these observations.
God has allowed us to see the light of life so that we might make of it what we will. Our decisions and how we respond to our thrownness and to existential everydayness determine who we ultimately become and how we fare in this world. We cannot blame others for the decisions that we make in our field of being. We are free rational substances with a high degree of autonomy. We rational substances possess volitional freedom and the ability to experience individuation.
Therefore one should not abdicate the responsbility of living authentically (Existenz). Do not blame the Society for the decisions you make. Even the decision to use one's thrownness to become a jw is an act of freedom. Freedom brings with it responsibility. Fredom also includes the potential for enjoying blessings or suffering maledictions.
Use your freedom wisely and responsibly.