So, about a decade ago there was a big scandal in my city concerning an young elder raping his 13 year old sister in law. The elder got reproved but was never turn over to the police. The girl's mom was an immigrant and very uneducated and decided it was best to forgive after the elders, whom one was the young elders dad, instructed her to remain silent and rely on Jehovah. His wife forgave him too.
Fast forward to now, the girl is now about 23 and a drug addict. The young elder is now disfellowshipped and left his wife. The really sad thing that pisses me off is that he is now a captain at one of our Fire Departments! If he would have been reported he would have never been allowed to be in the FD. He was still "in" when he applied to the FD, which means he also lied in the application and oral interview because they ask you if you have ever been labeled,accused or convicted of a crime.
So much for HOLY SPIRIT guiding the Elders!!