1 - Still think it's the truth ...came to this site cause danger is your middle name.
2 - Concerned, smoething's amiss but still believe
3 - 98% sure it's BS, but still go for / with family
4 - Anger / Denial, Inactive with minimal attendance (ie memorial, spec talk etc)
5 - FADED, DA'd, DF'd - NEVER WILL RETURN!!!
I personally am a 3.5, my wife is a 2 (although does not no it)