here's why children are suffering...
dueteronomy 19:15 says...........no single witness should rise up against a man respecting any error or a sin, in the case of any sin that he may commit.
at the mouth of two witnesses or at the mouth of three witnesses the matter should stand good. 16. in case a witness scheming violence should rise up against a man to bring a charge of revolt against him, 17. the two men that have the dispute must also stand before jehovah, before the priests and the judges, who will be acting in those days. 18 and the judges must search thoroughly, and if the witness is a false charge against his brother. 19 you must also do to him just as he had schemed to do to his brother, and you must clear away what is bad from your midst. 20. so those who remain will hear and be afraid.......nwt
so when a little girl comes in and says......."my daddy keeps making me @#$% him".......the elders ask her.....~~~~ "do you have 2 witnesses?~~~~......then the little girl says....."no daddy made me do it"...........then the elders, being scared of the DADDY P.O....tell the little girl,,,,,,, "you don't have two witnesses?,,,,,,you are lying........don't tell anyone........or we will punish you with something............mean while later......the little girl is growing up to be +++"different"+++......so they disfellowship her.