Go slow & be skillful. Act like you're figuring this stuff out with him and you're on the same team. Use questions like "I wonder why...".
My spouse just surprised me
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Quandry
Welcome to the forum.
Yes, it sounds as if he is doing a lot of deep thinking. Take small steps.
I hope you may both be on the same page soon. My husband and I are out together. We were both "in" for over thirty years, and he was an elder for twenty of them.
As someone said, "Better to have questions you can't answer than answers you can't question."
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humbled
A drop-your-jaw moment. I love thinking about this.
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stuckinarut2
Tread carefully!
dont appear too eager to agree or jump on the "critical jw talk"....
I had thought my wife was waking up.....and I said some things....then she reverted back into the jw mindset so quickly with much anger and defensiveness....
go carefully and slowly.....