on UPI, this poster,Survivor, shared her story and it is heartwrenching

by nonjwspouse 10 Replies latest watchtower child-abuse

  • nonjwspouse
    nonjwspouse

    I have been following the comments to the $13.5 million judgement story. This post is gripping. I hope she finds support for the story being told by so many, over and over.... I am not even close to being qualified to understand fully.

    http://www.upi.com/Top_News/US/2014/11/01/Jehovahs-Witnesses-must-pay-135M-to-teachers-sex-victim/2761414865636/#comment-1673431193

    Survivor NJWS9 hours ago

    First, thank you for the truth you stated above. Throughout this discussion I have maintained strength and a steadfast demeanor when sharing my experiences under the tyranny, cult, and oppressive brainwashing at the hands of the WTBTS. Reading now the absolute TRUTH that is your comment, so many terrible memories have come flooding back. It is through a storm of tears, crumbling knees, a fractured heart, and trembling hands that I affirm the horrific damage done to me and every single member of my family. WTBTS destroyed the lives of every member of my family. The domestic abuse that was perpetuated and covered up for decades; the molestation, sexual abuse, rape, emotional abuse, fear mongering, threats, etc. also perpetuated and covered up for decades; etc. ad infinitum; it has all come crashing to the forefront once again. Every single crime committed against me and my siblings and our mother was in every single case blamed on us! WE were the GUILTY ones every time! It took me 15 years of therapy to realize I was not to blame; the action of those men was NOT my fault! What about finding any shred of "self-esteem"? Add another 10 years of therapy! That is just my situation. Now add into the equation my 6 sisters and my mother and what they endured and suffered through. Now add to the equation the thousands of other innocent, brainwashed, oppressed, abused, etc. women and children of whom we will never know. Remember, #1 the Elders speak for God; #2 WTBTS "cover up" everything; #2 everyone must put on a smiling face to the world, anything of a negative nature must NEVER be seen outside the walls of the WTS or Kingdom Halls. These men played police officer, lawyer, judge, jury, and God. These aren't suppositions, I lived it. In my young mind I could not reconcile a loving God with the despicable actions of His chosen "Leaders". I remember wishing over and over again as a teenager that my entire family had never been born. It was one thing to have to endure these travesties myself, but to have to watch my dear beloved mother and my innocent little sisters have to suffer was simply too much to bear.

  • Balaamsass2
    Balaamsass2

    Powerful

  • MissFit
    MissFit

    Maybe comments like those will wake someone up or encourage others to speak out.

    Did you find any more interesting comments you would like to share?

  • nonjwspouse
    nonjwspouse

    MissFit, the comments section there has several good ones. But this one really got to me.

  • MissFit
    MissFit

    I can't read too many of those types of experiences. It triggers too many of my own.

    it does help to know I wasn't the only one and to realize that even after 40 years the policies of protecting the ORG. Over protecting children is still in place.

    It takes a lot of courage to speak out. As this problem gets more exposure, more people will be empowered to speak out.

    These comments being made in public "nonapostate" sites will reach more people.

  • KateWild
    KateWild

    Moving story, it brought a lump to my throat. Kate xx

  • LisaRose
    LisaRose

    I posted comments on one site, it was interesting to see some of the comments and the comments of the Watchtower apologists. One person said they couldn't be a cult because they didn't have one revered leader, obviously sadly misinformed about cults.

  • wannabefree
    wannabefree

    Now that I am out, it sickens me to read the comments of the indoctrinated ... excuses ... they are all the same and they avoid the complete picture. Total cult speak. I used to see things with those same rosey glasses.

  • MissFit
    MissFit

    Wannabe: those responses are programmed in...they are said automatically without a second thought.

    I had a conversation with my friend and her mom about the $13 Million law suit.

    I got the same programmed responses.

  • flipper
    flipper

    NONJWSPOUSE- This was a very powerful statement by this lady. Thanks for posting it. Even though she went through hell she sees the bigger picture that thousands of others have suffered abuse at the hands of the WT Society . I feel deep empathy for her

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