problemaddict2 - "...I think if it was my little girl I would probably teach her not to stoop to the level of those that must preserve ego and self without anything other than emotional need, but simply ignoring him..."
I was taught that for the longest time, too (and I more-or-less agreed with the sentiment), but it seemed to never really work out in the "real world"; the idealogues just kept mouthing off instead of giving up.
It wasn't until I learned a thing or two about the conservative/ authoritarian mindset that I realized the majority of them hold the view (consciously or otherwise) that silence equals consent...
...i.e., if you don't actively call assholes out on their bullshit, they interpret that as passive but tacit approval or agreement with said bullshit, which they further interpret as license to aspire to even higher and smellier degrees of bullshittery.