Ginx
I would like to share this information with an inactive loved one who was sexually abused as a child and it seems without evidence and just words, they wouldn't fully buy it.
Dont take any notice of what the Elders tell your loved one , they will just try to discourage him/her , they have got away with that deflection for years , not any more . Their are at least 20 cases of child sexual abuse currently before the courts against the WT/jehovahs witnesses as we speak in the USA alone , many more in other countrys around the world.
Encourage your loved one to get legal advice , no matter how long ago this abuse took place .
The tide is turning against organisations whether secular or spiritual who have failed to protect those in their care against abuse , sexual or ortherwise .
If you dont speak up nothing will be done .
If you do speak up you have more than a good chance of justice being done.
I hope everything goes well for both of you , but you have to be strong and bite the bullet .
smiddy