JW arguement: Thank you for your opinion. God DOES care for us & WANTS to help us. Let me show you a scripture... (insert scripture of choice)
Counter argument:
"So imagine your son/daughter is a teenager at driving age. Your son/daughter is a good person and helps others. Your teenager listens to you as a parent; your child tries their best to please you. When you ask your child to do something, they listen and obey....all around great kid.
One day, your teenager is going on a long road trip to help a relative. The car your teen is taking has MAJOR brake issues; the car is unsafe to drive. You know this, your child does not. You would normally put the money in to fix the brake issue but it does not benefit you to fix this because it will cost YOU money out of YOUR own pocket and you have been saving up for that new (fill in the blank item).
So, your teen gets in the car, drives off, and on their way to the relatives house, the brakes go out and your teen dies in a crash. You feel sad, you know you could of prevented this, yet, you did nothing. The authorities along with the automobile maker of your teens car launch an investigation. They find out that 2 weeks prior to your teens road trip, you took the car in for an oil change and the mechanic vehemently warned you about the brakes. Actual the mechanic made you sign the shop receipt saying you know of the issue but have declined service. The authorities decide to press charges against you, after all, you had the money or the "power" to fix the brakes. You later go to jail for manslaughter."
The correlation between this and god is, god has the power to help people. He has the power to help good people who have obeyed him and put him first. Look at the brothers and sisters who died in the Honduras bus crash:
http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/watchtower/scandals/287004/1/Honduras-bus-crash-leaves-14-dead-and-55-injured-JW
You can rightly say they were putting god first. Yet he did not spare them. Why?
Because of what god himself says at 1John 5:14 -
"This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us."
God is a HORRIBLE example of a parent. And he is the supposed heavenly father of all of us. God will only help us or individuals, if it benefits him. How disgusting! For all dead beat dads in the universe, surely jehober takes the cake.