If you can stomach Family Worship or the text long enough to sift through the garbage, then you are better than I am.
I offered to study the Bible with my wife, she refused. She only wants WT colored goggles. What are you going to do? You can't force it.
This sounds mean, but some people ( maybe even me, if God's real ) must be completely humbled at some point in life, or they NEVER change. At least with my method I have the potential for a gigantic, " I TOLD YOU SO!!!!" moment. Sure, it sounds a bit petty, but if the wife rats me out to the Eldubs again, and I get embroiled in another witch hunt and get DF'd, I can say it's her fault. Mean? Perhaps, but it will make me feel good.
I have warned her what will happen if she forces the issue. If she insists on tearing down her house with her own hands, then I will not sugar-coat anything for her. When she is old and gray, waiting on Jeehoober, she can fondly remember ruining our lives before she draws her last breath. Yes, I will actually tell her that, I can be a real a-hole.
As time keeps moving and the END never comes, reality will give her a bitch-slap of truth.
I think my method could work for some. If you warn your family about the consequences of ratting on you, and they see it come true, you have become a "prophet." My wife was so upset by our witch hunt, that we moved to another KH. When the same thing happens, again, what impact will it have?
DD