Hi All,
Thanks for your replies. (To Grits, youre more than welcome to post any part of my message on any email lists you have. If anyone has the scoop (which btw, Im delighted if it means the disbanding of the Bethelite life Id be interested. I dont quite have the stomach to call the WTS, although I am curious. And Im a relative newbie in navigating around the ex-jw sites. Tthis one has been great: I wish it were here when I was leaving many years ago).
I guess my deep down hope is that the need IS drying up. That people are WISING up. It surprised me to learn of the cancellation of mail subscriptions. How do they plan to get the truth into peoples hands??? Wasn't the subs one of their big measures of success??
What many of you say makes a lot of sense: the fact that theyve always advertised for Bethelites, and that its such a privilege to get in. Ill be honest, I was under the impression my nephew be snapped up the way the need was always positioned when I was in. And yes, the self-sufficiency of the org was always driven home, so if thats been changing slowly (or even dramatically recently), then I find that very, very interesting
Also, as my relatives and I dont talk very much (wonder why), I found it quite interesting that both my mom and sister made it quite clear whenever we talked that my nephew was applying and waiting to here from Bethel. Like it was a very big deal, and they were very proud of his decision. And like even *I*, a DA'd witness should be somehow PROUD of the possiblity of his going. (Right, yeah...) Prior to the most recent (final) news that he wouldnt be going due to lack of need, my sister seemed like SHE was getting some mixed messages from the WTS or from somewhere.. She said you know theyve reorged, and are making some changes. The only changes Id heard about Ive read here, so I played dumb. She didnt elaborate, but she definitely acted guarded.
It wasnt rocket science to figure out that neither she nor my nephew were exactly being leveled withThey had also gone back to NY (cross country trip) to do a tour and to make contacts to get him in (again, he has a couple of uncles who were/are? there), so it seemed like a pretty big deal, and I thought it was a foregone conclusion that hed be packing his bags any day now. Hes not, much to MY relief. Guess MY prayer was answered.