It's true what LadyLee says about men being visual, they're hard-wired that way. Ever watched one go into that stupor-daze, without even realizing it, when they catch sight of somebody that looks really good, etc.? You gotta sock 'em in the arm to snap them out of it.
Agree, also, that attire is not the faulting factor for rape, etc.
Thongs? Never tried 'em... you gotta have great buns to wear thongs I would think.
(They remind me of the "belts" we were given to use... well, you know... the ladies might remember those.... how horribly uncomfortable those were! Total yuk!)
And kids? Guess times have changed, but I was horrified when my mother said it was time for me to get a bra!
Read it just in the past few days, a post, not sure where... one of the forums I'm sure... about the xbrother who was on a JC about the young lady called in re: fornication or whatever, and she was grilled to the enth-degree as to whether she had worn thongs or regular panties.... remember that one? It was the saddest thing I ever read.... and this xbro was soooooo apologetic. The reasoning of the elders was (and I don't know if this is across-the-board instructions that all elders get, or if it was just the elders in that one JC), but if a woman wore a thong and was on a date or whatever, they determined that meant she went with the desire to "get laid;" whereas if she had worn regular undies, her intentions would NOT have been to get laid (or is that layed?).... Yes, seems they were policing (police-ing) down to the underwear level...
And if that is the logic going on at the KH, better not let the elders know if you let your young daughters wear thongs...
Not trying to be funny either.
GRITS
