Being stalked.....

by target 30 Replies latest jw experiences

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  target

  A couple of other things that I forgot to mention.

  The week before the dog was killed, my daughter-in-law could not find her keys for a couple of days. She used my sons keys to go to the grocery store. When she got home it was dark. She was taking the groceries into the house and her purse was still in the car.

  Later when my son asked for his keys back, she looked in the outside pocket of her purse for them and her keys were there too!

  Another thing is that she has been getting all this e-mail from porno sites and lately it has been all rape porno.

  They do have the shredder. The thing is, she runs a business from home and they had changed their personal number to the business number and got a new one for the personal number so the person could have called on either number. He wanted them to know that he had their new number. My son has installed an intirely different phone in his office now.

  Awhile back her business web site was hacked and a lot of porno was put on it and threats to her. They called the FBI but nothing came of it. The FBI isn't much interested in little businesses.

  I have a feeling this is not just going to go away. It is going to have a bad ending. Hopefully for the stalker.

  Target
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  scootergirl

  OMG Target........my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  I agree with everyone......please notify the police immediately! How scarey!
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  target

  L:isa:

  Those are all great ideas. I will pass it on.

  The children are 4years and 22 months. The 4 year old does not talk to people he does not know at all. He is real leary of people. The 22 month is just starting to talk. They do not go to school or day care.I have them at my house for a couple of days until the full security system is installed. They are having the additional sending unit installed in the attic that does not use the phone line or electric so if those are disabled, it will still send.

  They do have a couple of cops living on their block.

  Where we live the mail boxes are locked. Theirs is not. I think holding the mail is a good idea.

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  closer2fine

  I'm so sorry this is happening to your family.

  Be careful with the kids at your house, if he has had access to their home, phone conversations, etc. he may know where you live and come looking for the 4 year old.

  Please keep us posted on what happens - when they catch him!

  closer
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  target

  Closer

  I will keep you posted. My gut feeling is that this guy will either be caught or killed.

  Also, they are looking into moving a quite a distance from where they are, not because of this, but because of the business they run from home. They have a ton of inventory and they need a bigger place. This just gave them reason to do it a little sooner.

  I think this guy thinks he is a lot smarter than he is, otherwise he would not have been dumb enough to let us see his car. All I have to do is find that car in their neighborhood. We know he lives close enough to use the cordless phone that he took. I have a good idea which block he lives on but I can't go nosing around when I have the kids and pup here.

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  TR

  Yes indeed, it sounds like you need to put 'ol Smith & Wesson on duty.

  TR
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  Billygoat

  Target,

  I wish I could give you some sage advice, but the best has already been given to you. I had an ex-boyfriend a long time ago (early 90's) that stalked me a bit after I left him. I knew exactly who it was so I had a restraining order filed against him. Just so you know, that didn't guarantee my safety. He still came around and left dog poop on my front step. He came into my place of work. Of course, leaving before the cops could arrive. Left notes on my car. He let the air out of my tires several times while I was either at home sleeping or at work. I let everyone I knew that my safety was at risk and to help them keep eyes out for me. The fear someone like that can instill is a terrible feeling. You go every where looking over your shoulder. When I told my parents about it, they laughed and said that's what I got for being disfellowshipped. I still wonder if that's what they would have said had Jason ever really hurt me or worse, killed me. Eventually he stopped as he was arrested and convicted of shooting someone at a dance bar.

  I wish you the best. PLH gave some really good advice - keep detailed records of EVERYTHING. A journal of sorts. If it comes down to to any court presentation it will be much easier to argue your case.

  Andi
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  target

  Andi:

  There is another young couple back in Wisconsin who they had been friends with for years. That couple are diehard JW and took such offense when my son told them to watch Dateline. They said that was apostate thinking and they would not be e-mailing them anymore. That couple has had labradors for years so you would think that they would have had some feeling when they were told how this young dog died. Not a word from them. But then, they are the same ones who said that abused children should be quiet and quit bringing reproach on Jehovah's organzation. I am sure that if this pervert were to get ahold of this little 4 year old they would say it is their own fault for leaving the borg. Yep, they sure know about love!

  The thing is with this stalker, we are not just going to keep trying to avoid him. We are going to find him and take our own action. Restraining orders aren't worth the paper they are written on when it comes to guys like this. Like I said, I think I know right about where he lives. I will go by there until I see his car and if it is the same car, I will stand right out there taking pictures. You know, these guys don't want to be caught. They sure don't want their pictures taken. The pictures are for evidence if we need it too

  target (that name kind of has a different meaning lately)
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  Angharad

  Sorry your family is having to go through this - I cant begin to imagine how scary it must be. Please be careful. You have had some great advice on this thread.