That points to a false dichotomy. Happiness is independent of belief.
I agree that it is a false dichotomy. It is very over simplified.
But is happiness really independent of belief or is belief a subtle component of the illusive state we call happiness?
At the end of my days I want happiness to be something I have found in my life.
I am on an N of 1 experiment since leaving JWism.
I dont know if God exists or not. There is not absolute proof for or against.
So we are each free to surmise.
While I am surmising, I am defining what a real life means to me. I think one thing it means is being happy.
I see successful people in different areas who are not happy. Happiness seems as illusive as the whole "God" thing.
So I am on a one person search for happy people. I am looking for them everywhere. In my real life if someone seems happy I am going out of my way to investigate further when I can.
Without being weird that is!
I was talking to someone the other day, an older lady who seemed like someone who had been happy for a long time (based on her demeanor and the way the lines had settled on her face). I asked her when was the happiest time of her life. Her answer? "Right now".
I asked her to lunch. I told her I wanted to hear more.
It was a great lunch. She is a fascinating 83 year old.
Here on the threads I am reading and searching for the belief system of the happiest people.
I am extremely curious about this.
I am compiling my thoughts on paper. Who knows, maybe I will write a book about the search for happiness. I find it something that fills my thoughts and is a wonderful antidote for leaving my religion behind.