well, i haven't been out that long......just under 2 years. i do remember, however; my dad had a service meeting part or two about the internet and the 'dangers' of the internet. from what i remember of his talk and the 'research' from the WTS it was pretty clear that internet useage was to be limited and that no JW in good standing with a good conscience would ever be on a message board such as this. the whole point of it had to do something with bad association and since you don't know if you're really talking to JW's or apostates, it should be avoided all together. and i find it interesting that my sister was talking in the chat room the other day to someone who still claims to be an active dub--she asked the same sort of ques. she asked if the congo and elders for that person's KH would approve of visiting this site and talking with apostates--the person's reply was "what they don't know won't hurt them." i think people need to stop living in denial and if they can't agree with the rules of the borg, then get the hell out!!