Elders do Lie!
Generally speaking, the trust factor that most Rank & File JWs have for their Elders is very high. Like Silent Lambs post shows, most Brothers take what the Elders say as the last word in most matters. DateLine Apologizes for their molestation story... Yea, right.
I was at a car show last week and ran into a (once) very close JW friend (I DA' ed myself just over two years ago) who was threatened with disfellowshipping if he continued to talk to me some time back.
My friend asked if I have been encouraged by the Elder visits I was supposedly receiving on a regular basses. I responded, "I have never, ever received one visit or phone call or message in the last two years since my letter, none!"
My friend stated that when he was threatened with removal for speaking to me, he was assured that I would receive the needed attention. My friend, in fact, has been asking about me these last two years and the Elders have continued to lie to him about calling on me!
With a look of shock he exclaimed "they have all been lying to me about you!" He then stated, "I am tired of the elders using fear to get what they want from me."
Wow, I have never heard my friend talk like that. Well, we are back in touch now......it will just be a matter of time when his eyes will fully open.
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