JW or Not-- women need to be careful how they give up the "Coochie"
cause in most cases it will be the woman who will have to struggle while the man is off to the next stop-
I could care less about the "Sinning" for that is a joke anyway, but just from a practical , emotional, and $$$ standpoint- women need to choose thier LOVERS carefully-
In the Black community I see so many good women who got taken in by Smooth Harry promising them the world - just to get the "Coochie" and afterwards - they couldn't get a phone call-
so ladies do as you please, but be careful cause every man who tells you how beatiful and how fine you are don't neccessaryly mean it-
we had a group of former jw over at our house recently and many were single women who while in the org couldn;'t get no Loving- but now that they are out they can love who every they want to and for many of them that is what they did
as one lady said i was a virgin in the org and I was giving away as much "Coochie" at the club and on the job as I could - only to realize that it might not be the smartest route to take- so she reexamined her self and here reason - found her a good man and is doing well
so many of our dear sister are never told how to find a man beyond wt qualifications which are:
1. attends all meeting
2. out in service reg
3. reaching out for mike handler, etc
yes a good society man-
so when they leave wt these are the only qualifications they have as a ref and now they reject these of course and many times they are left with a PLAY IT BY EAR type qualifications
and for far to many of these good , decent, solid women they end up going for the first man they meet
as one sister said here at my house
James, I am 46yrs old and single never had a man at the Hall tell me i was beatiful, then I leave wt and every man i walk by tells me I'm fine. As she said ---it is like what Whitney Houston said in the movie "Soul Food"
" MY BODY NEEDS THIS"-- smile
but be careful ladies glad to see you get out of the Male control wt, but be careful for as James Brown said "It's a Man's World" and for too many men they feel that women are disposal product
Used them and when finish throw them out- and when that happens the emotional hurt from what i have seen in talking and dealing with former jw women who find themselves caught up in such a situation
IT IS PAINFUL -
but hey ladies we love you all -
my wife is so happy that now she no longer feels that somehow god will dog her for speaking her mind to a Man,
Freeedom is a wonderful thing
james
