Great post Fakel.
Lets see if I were to have waited on Jehovah every time I was told to do so I would have been;
Still living in a house with my molester and his friends until he died or married off to some MS.
Lost my home, car and all belongings. I would have been without income to support my children after my first husband left. Most likely on well-fare living off the state thirteen years ago.
Without higher education to provide for my children.
Because I did not wait on Jehovah, the sisters and brothers in the hall shunned me for working to provide for my family. This because I could not make every meeting due to work and education. I was "marked" as well because I did these things. I could not believe it when I was told a talk was given one Sunday and I was marked for trying to better myself and wrangle myself away from my home.
Not relying on Jehovah as directed, has let me with my sanity (well some of it ). An education to assure that my children have what they need. Far and away from my molesters. Because I made the decision to rely on my own resources I have become an independent woman. Albeit I lost my JW friends because I chose to think and do for myself. I made it here and out of the org.
How sad that one chooses to wait until they can no longer think for themselves and endure a lifetime of pain thinking Jehovah will suddenly drop a ton of money in their laps and take care of their financial woes. Of course Jehovah, in due time will protect the children and stop the molesters, of course he will I'm sure strike them down with lightning while in the act. NOT!!
Cassi, of the get up off your Ass and be proactive class.