Awake! The silent treatment

by punkofnice 24 Replies latest watchtower beliefs

  • Oubliette
    Oubliette

    Great, they admit that "the silent treatment" is:

    • Manipulation
    • Retaliation and
    • A form of revenge
    • It erodes respect
    • Is "A tactic that, at best, works only short-term,"
    • It "runs counter to the Bible's admonition

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    And yet they require all R&F members to do this for extended, indefinite periods to any and all that disagree with those in charge.

    Let's review: It's a cult!



  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    AWAKE! JUNE 2013

    How to End “the Silent Treatment”

    WHAT YOU CAN DO

    The first step to ending the silent treatment is to recognize it for what it is—a tactic that, at best, works only short-term. True, not talking may quench your thirst for retaliation or compel your spouse to give in to your wishes. But is that really how you want to treat someone whom you have vowed to love? There are better ways to resolve conflicts.

    The Silent Treatment..Like Shunning??!!..

    The WBT$ has written an Article about what they are Guilty Of.....AND..

    GIVES ADVICE!!.....They Would Never Take!!..

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    The WBT$ Has No Clue How "WATCHTARDED" They Look,To The Rest Of The World..

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  • Muddy Waters
    Muddy Waters
    Oubliette, you still there to edit your post? You did such a nice summation, but forgot one thing they also mentioned -- it "prolongs conflict" !!
  • Muddy Waters
    Muddy Waters
    Oooh, it would also be great to list ALLLL the reasons they said "excommunication" was a vile, hateful thing unscripturally practiced by the Catholic Church in a 1957 Awake article. Maybe that should be under a different post if anybody has access to that article? I am on my iPad but it is on my computer somewhere....
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  • Vidiot
    Vidiot

    Outlaw - "Take my advice... I'm not using it!"

    Pure genius; I gotta remember that one.

  • rebelfighter
    rebelfighter
    Not a JW but a red hot Italian single parent who at times could have a short fuse. My kids also used a method called selective hearing so when I asked for things to be done they selectively heard them. Well eventually that fuse got a tad bit to short and when the hot Italian mom became extremely silent it was amazing how quickly they suddenly remembered all those things they had selectively not heard before.
  • Oubliette
    Oubliette

    MW: Oubliette, you still there to edit your post? You did such a nice summation, but forgot one thing they also mentioned -- it "prolongs conflict" !!

    Nice catch!

    I wish I could add it to my list, but you did for me!!!

  • truthseekeriam
    truthseekeriam

    Great find!! What Hypocrites.

    My mother is the queen of such manipulation sadly.

  • rebelfighter
    rebelfighter
    Only lasted 30 minutes in house, my kids got all the chores done in record time.

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