There is nothing to get... it is life, then death. What you do in between is what matters. To waste more than a minute worrying about who, what, where, when and how will only frustrate you and waste more of the precious time you have on earth. Have fun, enjoy waking up in the morning. Enjoy your kids, without burdoning them with finding the answers. Smile. Tell people to fuck off if they think you should do other than you want to. Actually, that statement will probly fit in here soon, when one of the god-apologists refutes my atttitude on life and death. Lets all assume I said it up front and save some time.
Animal (who is his own god)