Dear Mimilly I want you to know I appreciate your kind words in response to posts of mine. It meant a lot. I think you have made valuable contributions to the jwsite. I understand the need for a break. I do it ALL THE TIME!!! You got to take care of yourself first. That way you'll be clear-headed and free to help others. That's what I do. In regards to the specifics of the post that upset you. Interestingly enough, I received at 5 a.m. (about 3 weeks ago from a foreign acquaintance who I respect and trust) an email with an attachment with no hint of what was in it. I didn't hesitate for a moment to open it because of our past history. Well, the attachment was a series of photos of the most horrific scenes of abuse of children -- a case that was going to be sent to the World Tribunal -- I can't even talk about specifics. I couldn't finish it..I was nautious to the point of almost vomiting. I was also in shock. There was no preparation, no warning. Was I upset at this person? Momentarily, yes. I didn't want to see this at 5a.m. Frankly I never want to see this. I cried my eyes out when they showed the dog being poisoned by the Taliban on CNN last night! Kinda of a weak stomach with visuals but not with word stories. We're all different eh! So, I truly understand how you feel and your reaction. The original poster I'm sure never intended to upset you. Hope you'll return when you are ready. Take care, Donald aka morrisamb