Dear Spider;
Thanks for bringing this post back to the forefront. It is unfortunate that this kind of pain and suffering occurs. The emotional and mental torture can be extreme at times. It is for this reason that I come here; to be a help to others who have suffered as I have, and to get help and support when I truly need it. The mentally cruelty and abuse inflicted by our own family and the cult makes all of our other squabbles look so petty.
Tammy