Hillary,
I have no funeral plans for myself. (still a JW deep inside maybe! lol)
For the last week of my father's life I helped care for him. He was a lover of music and so in his room I kept soft music always playing.
One particular piece though was given preference: Rodrigo's "Fantasia para un Gentilhombre", played by Segovia.
That music wafted out the open window of my father's bedroom, over the flower bed, and across the yard where his small grandchildren played unknowing of the approaching death which had prompted the playing of that particular piece.
If there is such a thing as a "good" death, my father experienced one. He went to sleep with music and family all around him.
IW