Did YOU Ever HATE Anybody???????

by minimus 32 Replies latest jw friends

  • Englishman
  • Europe
    Europe

    Nope, there is no one I particularly hate, but I hate what certain people are doing, applying double standards, abusing innocent childeren etc!

  • safe4kids
    safe4kids

    I've only truly hated one person in my life and that was my abuser. Interestingly, I didn't reach a level of hatred until I started trying to heal from the abuse and he began attempting to block that healing. He was "upset" with me for going to the elders for help, and allowing the little "secret" to come out. I did hate him, quite intensely, for some time. I had very vivid fantasies of killing him. At the meetings, I would stare at the back of his head and imagine standing up and blowing him away. I am not a violent person by nature and it was a great relief to me when these thoughts finally began subsiding. That was years ago and now I can say that I no longer hate him. I simply do not care about him in any way.

    As Mimilly said, hate is such a destructive emotion, it poisons the person who hates and I consider it a victory that I was able to let that hatred go. I don't forgive him for his actions, he's a pretty evil person all the way around, but I don't dwell on it nor allow it to affect my life or emotions any longer.

    Dana

  • MegaDude
    MegaDude

    I hated the Governing Body at one time. I mean hated them with such a strong desire for vengence I.... Ah, why go there. Now I am just glad I'm not them. There but for the grace of God go I.

  • minimus
    minimus

    Wonderful comments! Mimily, all I can say is WOW!

  • Dismembered
    Dismembered

    I had anathemas (not to be confused with enemas) for a handful WTB law enforcers a.k.a "elders"

    One in in particular whos nick-name now stands as Fhart Bhastard!

    Dismembered

  • Guest 77
    Guest 77

    Resentment, yes! Hate, no.

    Guest 77

  • minimus
    minimus

    DISMEMBERED, What did Fhart Bhastard do to you? btw aren't there a lot of them Fhart Bhastards??

  • Dismembered
    Dismembered

    I'll tell you someday

    WTB infested with them

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    I hate Barney the Dinosaur... 'cause he's a Communist.

    I also hate the Tele Tubbies... 'cause they're Socialist pigs.

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