So...I totally stopped going to meetings two years ago. Since then, I have gotten married and moved into my husband's home. His father and mother also live there. His father is a return visit of an older JW man, who I presume is an elder (he may even be at bethel, but I'm not sure). My father in law has no intentions of becoming a JW or studying with them. He just thinks the JW who visits him is a nice man that likes to chat, and apparently the JW has been coming over for years.
Anyway, there has been a few times when my father in law has not been home so I have answered the door for the JW. Once during the memorial invites I answered. The JW just smiled at me and asked for my FIL, when I told him that my FIL wasn't available the JW just handed me the invite and told me to give it to my FIL...no explanation on what it was, no personal invite for me. This past weekend, my FIL didn't feel like talking to the JW so I told him I would take care of the visit that day. I was all ready to have a nice "biblical discussion" with them but our conversation went something like this:
JW: is you FIL home?
Me: He’s not available right now
JW: Oh, I’ve stopped a few times recently and he hasn’t been home
Me: yeah he’s busy
JW: What’s your name?
Me: (I tell him)
JW: that’s a French name, do you speak French fluently?
Me: No (funny cause the last congregation I was in was the french, I really don’t want them coming to visit me)
JW: What do you do for work?
Me: I tell him and I tell him where I work
JW: That’s a bit of a commute
Me: It’s not bad
JW: I have these magazines, have you seen them before?
Me: yeah, I’ve seen them around
JW: Oh this ones about anxiety - - you’re wearing a running tee shirt do you like to run?
Me: yeah
JW: Oh some people like you run to relieve anxiety, give these mags to your FIL please.
That was it, no opening the bible, no leaving mags for me to read, no asking if I was interested. Do the JW’s just go around making social visits nowadays?