Honestly, [and I mean that as my choice of word], perhaps I should give you a crash course in victim 101!!!!
My siblings and I were victims..I don't have to prove that....We're no angels!!!! Haven't been for a long, long time. Probably since an adult introduced us to evil, lies, deception, inappropriate (to put it mildly) criminal behaviour. You looking for angel victims, dream on!! The fact that a victim might not be an angel could be sign of abuse!
Hey, you're making Vicki's case here! I've posted this before to one of your posts: where is your condemnation of the sexual abuse? I've heard from people like you for 20 years: "He's just a brat making trouble." "He's drawing negative attention to Jehovah's name." "He's just like his father." You know who never receives this kind of verbal abuse? The one responsible for the criminal acts. Now that's the real crime!
Let's say you knew me and you announced on a board like this, "He's no angel." I'd say, tell us something we don't know.
Sign me, Flaming, vindictive, drama queen and centre of the universe!