Lisa, you're an amature! lol. It's really more an activity for women.
Which leads me to the case of Ang, my last witness girlfriend. Ang, would pinch me. On the chest, arm, shoulder. Hard. I mean, it hurt. She would seem to do it when she had come to, er, gotten to, a point one might expect some expression from her, but not that! ouch, dammit. Now I wonder if that was her way of holding it all in (they were long pinches, lol, I miss them), or her way of expressing frustration that this was a good as it gets for Witnesses who want to stay witnesses. Now of couse, I would just ask her, but back then I was still a bit intimidated from talking about sex openly.
Funny thing is, about a year later, she is married, and calls me to ask if I think she should mention our groping to the elders who are going to be meeting with her to clear some things up about her past dating. She was leaning towards no, "since there was no disrobing going on", lol. I said no. Of course by then, I was apostate. She could see the ridiculousness of the elders meeting with her about it, but not enough, I guess. Sigh, this all, of course, made me realize even more just how many witnesses drew a much wider line than I did. She'd be a regret, save for the fact that it would have made such a mess of her life when she confessed. Ok, mine too.