Strange comment after shooting

by detective 12 Replies latest jw friends

  • detective
    detective

    I was listening to the news this morning and they were reporting on a double shooting that had just happened at a pharmacy. Details about the shooting weren't available as it had just happened but the reporter detailed what he was witnessing as the EMTs removed two badly wounded victims from the pharmacy.
    About ten minutes later he came back on the radio and gave an update, including comments from a pharmacy employee who was due in at nine am (the shooting must have taken place around 8:30 or so).

    Reporter: Did you find what happened here surprising?
    Marguerite(the employee): Not at all, I know the condition of the world today.
    {the reporter said something else but I was still pretty stunned by what the employee said}
    Marguerite: I'm just glad I didn't have to be until nine o'clock
    {the report finished just after that with no other snippets by the employee}

    Now, I was struck by a couple of things. One, that the employee expressed no particular emotion, no quivering voice or discernable shock. She was very matter of fact..."not at all, I know the condition of the world today". Her response was so distancing from the event, it was almost as if the shooting happened somewhere across the country and she had no particular link to it whatsoever. It certainly didn't seem to be the response of a woman who worked in the place of the shooting and likely knew at least one of the victims.

    Also, I'd imagine that even "knowing the condition of the world today", I'd still be somewhat surprised if someone opened fire at my place of employment (even more so if you consider it's location is a rather sedate area that sees mostly petty crime and rarely sees shootings). Additionally, I'd imagine that I would be shocked and horrified if (at least) one of my coworkers were shot. So what struck me, aside from the oddly callous words from this employee was the tone of her voice which just amplified the cold-natured response.
    I've seen quite a few people facing life-altering situations through a job I used to have. I've heard all sorts of responses to tragedy. But even when I've heard words inconsistent with enormous personal loss, I have always heard something else beyond those words. Shock, disbelief, sadness, fear- you get the idea. What shocked me was that the employees voice offered none of that. In fact, it seemed like the words "I know the condition of the world today" were something she'd uttered a thousand times before.
    Yes, I have my suspicions as to where that well-rehearsed line came from.I feel a little bit bad for that woman because her words were so removed from her basic humanity and compassion. It sounded monstrous, even though I doubt she as a person is monstrous. Of course, it left me to ponder over groups that actually so desensitive it's members that they can unblinkingly dehumanize others. How disturbing.

  • Sentinel
    Sentinel

    Perhaps she was a JDub.

  • Dia
    Dia

    I understand your comments.

    My first impressions were:

    1) Perhaps she was involved in it somehow or knew who was.

    2) WHERE is this place? Some locations in this great USA are exceedingly dangerous and some people keep their emotions at bay in order to survive.

    3) She's working in a pharmacy. The 'wonder drugs' available today are designed to keep people functioning in the face of 'Post Traumatic Stress Disorder', 9-11 and more. I suspect they do so by cutting people off from their feelings. Perhaps she's taking one of them.

    4) If she walked into a situation where the victims were alive and being cared for, the police and EMT's clearly had the situation under control and everyone she worked with was right there, and a bunch of reporters were also right there, maybe she didn't feel scared. Maybe she felt curious or perhaps like she needed to be strong.

    5) Some people don't feel their feelings till later when they're alone.

    6) Some people think it's shameful to express weakness or fear or vulnerability.

    7) Maybe she's a JW and has no meaningful emotional connection whatsoever to anything.

  • detective
    detective

    Dia,
    here is the quote as featured on a local Boston website:

    "I know the condition of the world, so nothing surprises me at all. I am just glad that I didn't have to come in until 9 a.m.," a CVS employee said.

    Details are still unclear on the incident.

    The vicinity of the shooting is not known for violent crime. Shootings in that area are quite rare.

    Perhaps you had to hear the intonation. The way it was said, just as what she said, was really quite chilling.

  • DJ
    DJ

    Detective,

    Hi, your name suits you..lol. I agree with you that her response was unusual, even if she is a dub. Whether she's a dub or not though, I'm still surprised that she was only showing concern for herself by stating that she was glad she wasn't there. Hey, who knows....maybe she was just in shock but it does seem odd. Keep us updated? Thanks, dj

  • RedhorseWoman
    RedhorseWoman

    This statement is reminiscent of statements posted by JWs after the attacks on the WTC last year. Many were quite matter of fact about it, and many were excited. Tragedy fits well with a doomsday scenario.

  • DJ
    DJ

    ROBOTIC, huh? Very 'Stepford wives' like......scary

  • sisteract
    sisteract

    detective,

    i agree that the statement made sounded very emotionless----could be she's a jw---who knows. but the jw response to any and all tragedy is very cookie cutter response and mentality. i don't think i'll have to guess at what her introduction will be out in field service this saturday!!!! i heard the report on the local news tonight---we must be in the same area. i havn't been posting long here, but walked away back in '97. even though i don't know you (then again maybe i do) i'm especially glad when i see someone "local" to me posting.

    sisteract

  • detective
    detective

    I'm in the Boston area, Sisteract. I honestly don't know if the employee was a JW or not, however the wording of her comment and the way it was said certainly caught my attention. I will say that it got me thinking about the tendency of some groups- ahem- to emotionally distance themselves from others. Again, I can't say for sure either way but her language was eerily familiar.

    Oh, by the way, I'm not an ex-jw. Nor a jw for that matter. Just a regular ol' worldly one who made a friend of someone who was never supposed to befriend a worldly person like me! Go figure!!

  • kelsey007
    kelsey007

    I believe that our media driven instant graphic information deludge along with the reality looking entertainment that dominates our society has made many "shock proof". On TLC you can watch corpses being examined. Live broadcast of horrific events from around the world are presented daily on our cable news networks.

    I say not to be overly suspicious. Everyone reacts to shock in differing ways. Some scream and cry while others are stunned to silence. Others seem calm and composed. This lady may have gone home and cried herself to sleep as her body shook throughout the night.

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