Hello and Welcome Darren,
I'm so pleased that you were able to see that the TROOF isn't the truth! It was a long hard struggle for all of us and I think you'll find comfort in relating to our experiences. I wish you all the best in your marriage and please let your fiance know that she did nothing to cause the treatment that she received. I'm sure you have given her comfort already! Anyway, you'll find various personalities here and I'm sure that soon enough you will be able to decifer who to take to heart and who to ignore Oh, let me spare you the pondering that I went thru in trying to figure out some of the abbreviations in the lingo here:
LOL= Laugh out loud
ROFL=Rolling on the floor laughing
Dub=W for witnesses or Jdub
LMAO=laugh my $#$ off
Borg=Brookyn or British org
r/f=rank and file members
I know that I missed a few....maybe someone can post more! I 've tolerating the shunning as well. It will all get easier in time. I am a Christian now.....YIKES>>>>>>!! Yeah, one of those. I have found so much peace in realizing that Jesus is the TRUTH and the Borg is just a man made religion full of rules and heavy burdens and generally a very unmerciful place.
love, dj (((((((Darren))))))))= hugs!