I Was Told That The Elders Have Not Gone After Me Because They Hope I Will Return!

by minimus 14 Replies latest jw experiences

  • minimus
    minimus

    The elders told my mom they obviously could have come after me but are holding hope that I will return to Jehovah and be reunited to the congregation.

    Isnt that nice?😇

  • joe134cd
    joe134cd
    Take this as an opportunity to close the door behind you and never return.
  • cappytan
    cappytan
    Isn't Jehoover generous and merciful?
  • ToesUp
    ToesUp
    Don't you just "feel the love"?
  • sparrowdown
    sparrowdown

    That's interesting minimus.

    So if you think about it they are admitting that "going after someone" can actually have the reverse effect and push them further away.

  • dubstepped
    dubstepped
    Just out of curiosity, why were they talking about you? Was she trying to get them to go after you to punish you? I ask because I have parents like that. Or was she just upset about your status and they were comforting her? Hopefully it is closer to the latter. If the former, my heart goes out to you.
  • Village Idiot
    Village Idiot
    I think that means that they're going to ignore and forget about you.
  • just fine
    just fine
    It's funny how some get left alone and others are relentlessly pursued.
  • millie210
    millie210

    What would they "go after" you for?

    I realize this could be anything from something you actually did that was none of their business to something they have invented.

    Just curious what is in their minds and what they are saying to your mother.

  • minimus
    minimus
    My mom is very ill and I help her quite a bit. The elders have been very helpful to her and they are aware of my assistance toward my mom. As a former well respected elder, who was very much liked, they hope that whatever was behind my decision to leave, I will read their new brochure and feel compelled to return to Jehovah. That's it in a nutshell.

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