What was one thing you did and really wanted to do when you left the JW's;what you couldn't do because of the organization?
Mine was martial arts.
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What was one thing you did and really wanted to do when you left the JW's;what you couldn't do because of the organization?
Mine was martial arts.
Mine was having a meaningful sex life.
Richard
Sleep w/my boyfriend. Actually, we moved in together.........
Reading religious/philosophical books not published by the borg.
I also sport a goatee now, I've received many compliments on it.
Well, I had pretty much done all of my major sinning prior to leaving! The first thing that I did when I left was.........corny? I searched for the real Truth. Once I had that answer, the jw's became just plain stupid. I have never been happier or more fulfilled.
I guess the major thing that helped me the most was.....are you ready??? I prayed to Jesus. At first I thought that I might get smushed by God for that but it was the best thing I've ever done. Dj
I had sex for my first time.
Well, these answers were pretty predictable. I was in college and I remember one particular semester when I got on a good run of luck and woke up a lot of weekend mornings in a dorm at a nearby college. In fact my new-found hobby cost me my on-time graduation.
I remember telling my husband he was no longer controlling me, and to "knock it off". I still can see the shocked look on his face.
I respect him and love him very much, but no one controls me, EVER again. I am independent, and he is loving it.
I think there are times he wishes I was submissive again, but I was always kind of rebellious in that area. Most of the time I looked to him for decisons, as though I didn't have a brain.
psychedelics
Well since I was in still in my early 20's and single, I decided to go to college. I ended up joining a fraterninty and had the time of my life!!!!!