What was one thing you did and really wanted to do when you left the JW's;what you couldn't do because of the organization?
Mine was martial arts.
by shera 32 Replies latest jw friends
Well, I had pretty much done all of my major sinning prior to leaving! The first thing that I did when I left was.........corny? I searched for the real Truth. Once I had that answer, the jw's became just plain stupid. I have never been happier or more fulfilled.
I guess the major thing that helped me the most was.....are you ready??? I prayed to Jesus. At first I thought that I might get smushed by God for that but it was the best thing I've ever done. Dj
I remember telling my husband he was no longer controlling me, and to "knock it off". I still can see the shocked look on his face.
I respect him and love him very much, but no one controls me, EVER again. I am independent, and he is loving it.
I think there are times he wishes I was submissive again, but I was always kind of rebellious in that area. Most of the time I looked to him for decisons, as though I didn't have a brain.