YES I WAS VERY AFRAID AT FIRST BUT SINCE THEN I HAVE DIVED RIGHT IN..... AND I FEEL MORE AT HOME HERE THAN AT ANY OTHER PLACE ,,, MY EXPERIENCE AS A NEWBIE ON OCT 13,,,, UNDER IAM A NEWBIE NEED HELP IS WHERE MY STORY IS POSTED ,,,, you have all been more than kind and understanding and showing me true love,,, ( you are my true bro and sis) thank you so much for listening tomy rantings and getting out my frustrations being married to someone who claimed to be of the annointe d for 10 yrs,,,,(been divorced from him for over 10yrs now)) that has its own dynamics or rages of dynamite which ever you prefer..... ican relate to sooooo many on this board....again i feel i am home after a long battle and i will continue on my quest