Today is one of the worst days of my life!

by gilwarrior 28 Replies latest jw friends

  • gilwarrior
    gilwarrior

    I just can't believe how bad I feel right now! Today started off well. I was feeling upbeat, because I was going to take my written exam to be a cab driver. I went to the Taxicab Authority here is Las Vegas. I took the test and I was surprised at how much that was on the test was not on my study guide that was given to me. I was sure that I failed and as it turns out I did. I could only get eight answers wrong to pass and I got twelve wrong. Oh well. I am going to take it again in two days, so it is no big deal. Anyway, I came home and made the dumbest decision I could have possibly have made.

    I decided to take some of my money and go play poker. Why? I don't know! Perhaps, because I hate myself and I was doing this to purposely punish myself! Anyway, I get there and after playing for about ten minutes of Texas Hold Em, I get two cards: a pair of fives. Ok, not a bad hand. So I call and the first three cards are layed down: king, nine, and five. Great! I have a three fives, so I raise. The next card is layed down and it is another nine. So here I have three fives and a pair of nines. I have a full house. This a great hand. At this point I am thinking to myself that I must have this came beat, so I raise. Then it is down to only me and the this other guy. The last card comes down and it is a two. The card doesn't help me, but it doesn't matter, I have a full house. So I bet and then he raises. I call him. So I have a pair of fives and on the table there is a king, nine, five, nine, and two. Now, I am thinking that I have this game in the can. So we then show both our cards.

    THE GUY HAS TWO NINES AND WITH THE OTHER TWO NINES ON THE TABLE, HE HAS A FOUR OF A KIND! I COULDN'T F***KING BELIEVE IT. I HAD A FULL HOUSE! THERE WAS ONLY ONE WAY HE COULD HAVE POSSIBLY BEATEN ME AND HE HAD IT!UNF***KINGBELIEVABLE! HOW COULD THIS HAVE HAPPENED!? I KEPT A STRAIGHT FACE, BUT INSIDE I WAS SO MAD!

    I then quickly grabbed my remaining chips and I left. I knew it! I knew it! I should have never gone to play poker. Even while I was going there, I knew it was a bad idea! What am I going to do? I don't think I can ever play poker again. I think that you have to have a certain skill and I don't have it.

    Now the rest of my week is shot. I will probably feel bad for two or three days. The worst of my problems is my make up exam on Friday. I don't know how will I be able to study for it with this bothering me. God, I want this job so bad. I can't stand being had home all day, doing nothing. I am here in this city and I don't know anyone. I can't stand not having any human contact. Please, don't tell me that I have to meet people, because I can't. I have no social skills. Anyone, who meets me will either find me uninteresting or annoying, because when I met someone I either don't say anything or I talk a lot. So I have to accept that I will not have any friends. It sucks, but that is the way it is.

    Now I know that I am going to get a whole sh*t load of e-mail from people telling me that I am addicted to gambling and that I have to stop so GO AHEAD, LET ME HAVE IT! I don't give a f**k!

    And if anyone wants to drop me an e-mail remember, I AM A GUY!

  • terabletera
    terabletera

    Bummer.

    Too bad.

    That sucks.

    But you'll get over it honey. :0)

  • Skeptic
    Skeptic

    My reply will either make you feel better or worse.

    The only thing that determines whether or not you did something stupid is whether you bet too much. If you have to eat baloney sandwiches for two weeks, no big deal. Lesson learned. But if you bet your rent money or your food money for a month, then it is stupid.

    There is nothing wrong with gambling for entertainment purposes. It is fun. The only reason I don't play poker is I totally suck at it. I am good at blackjack, but have never played in a casino...only with friends. The problem my friends have is that I win all their money.

    BTW, except for amounts that would put me at undue risk, I would have bet like you have....a full house is a damn good hand! What bad luck, eh? I truly do feel for you.

    Richard

    Edited by - Skeptic on 30 October 2002 17:34:21

    Edited by - Skeptic on 30 October 2002 17:35:59

  • stichione
    stichione

    Don't complain too much.

    I was hit by a pickup truck yesterday while I was legally crossing an intersection. I was hit, flew over the hood and landed beside the driver's door. I was lucky I didn't suffer any serious damage, only aching muscles and bruises. I guess I'm lucky to be alive.

  • ugg
    ugg

    (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( gilwarrior)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) from ugg with the no social skills class!!! god,,,i so understand

  • shera
    shera

    Hi Gilwarrior,

    Yes you do have a gambling problem and it sounds like it is taking over your life.As well,taking away important things you need.I don't want to attack you and make you feel worse than you are now.

    You have to take control of "YOUR life" and get the help you need.There is no shame in getting help and admitting that you have a problem.

    Take care and get the control back.Hugs

  • Valis
    Valis

    Gil...you never did answer me as to whether or not you tried contacting rekless about work. As well, you might want to rethink your descision to live in Vegas if you have a problem controlling your gambling. Besides...we miss you here in TX..

    Sincerely,

    District Overbeer

  • terabletera
    terabletera

    Poor Stichi!

    That would be awful, I am glad you are okay.

    see? there are worse things.....

  • JosephAlward
    JosephAlward

    THERE WAS ONLY ONE WAY HE COULD HAVE POSSIBLY BEATEN ME AND HE HAD IT!

    He could have had two kings.

  • jgnat
    jgnat

    Gilwarrior, this is the second time you have posted here after feeling crummy after a bad day at cards. I understand your need for a support group, but perhaps you should be getting some attention from experts in the field. You know you have a problem, don't you? I am guessing you are in a vicious cycle now (feeling terrible about yourself, then gambling "just one more time" to feel better). You have initiative and drive. You want out, otherwise you would not be telling us. Go for it! Get some help!

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