Thanks so much for asking Brummie!. It means a lot to me!
I gottiredof waitingfo the Dr to call so I called him and yelled! My daughter had a scan done and she found out from her Dr the same day!.(Thank goodness she is OK.)
.Well that made me mad. I think his Dr thought we could wait until Tusday next when he has an appontment Wrong!. Anyway...His lung tumor is shrinking BUT..he went on to say ..the liver tumors have multiplied and are blocking the ducts now!. He doesn't want to use any more chemo. He has NO options left. If they used Chemo..it could kill him now!. As it is I think it is growing faster than they originally thought. . At first he had 9 months to a year. Now the Dr. acts like it could be soon. We still have an appointment on Tuesday . I guess to see how to handle things...We are both heartbroken.We just retired and thought we would have at least 20 years to play!..He has started a notebook of love letters to me. I have been telling him all the things that he did for me that I appreciate and remember!
We had a date when we were teenagers..it snowed really hard all of a sudden and his car got stuck. We had to walk to my house which was about 4 long blocks away. Well I had flats on and he carried me all the way home! Then he walked to his house which was about 20 minutes away!
One time I had an abcessed tooth and it was on the weekend.t hurt so bad! He rocked me all night to take my mind off it. Then we found a dentist on Sunday that would give me some meds.
When we were younger..we had 3 small children close together. He was the sole breadwinner. He cut his foot and put a big gash in it. I rmember him wrapping it real tight and going to work anyway. He drove a truck and had to be using his foot all day! It was things like that that makes him special!
A lot of time has passed since then and even though he is a JW..I don't regret anything .
I love him more than life.
Snoozy...........