If you have changed your beliefs and they are now contrary to an organization, why force the organization to go along with you? As in leaving the JWs, my beliefs changed and I left the organization, I did not expect the Watchtower to conform to me. If you no longer believe in something, time to leave it and move on.
This notion that everything must cater to one is dead wrong, in my opinion. There are plenty other organizations to join and still have your new beliefs intact