Please forgive me if this goes to the wrong forum. It's the first time i've posted anything on the internet. I must commend you on the time and research you all have done on this subject. I do not know if you all are witnesses, or were witnesses, but you have shown remarkable insight into the nature of these discussions.
Currently, I am still one of Jehovah's Witnesses (rank and file position if that means anything). Nothing of this matter has been brought to my attention in the congregations by the Society, but then it does not suprise me. I agree that the Watchtower Bible and Tract Society stands in a position where it does not belong. Certain things that have been done, and condoned, in the name of the Society are anti-scriptural, and I believe Jehovah will deal with them for doing the things they have done.
It would seem that they mimic the Scribes and Pharisees of Jesus day in their reasonings, believing that they can get away with certain things because they believe themselves to be " God's chosen people". They claim also to be "God's spirit directed organization on earth", but would god's spirit direct them to establish membership with the UN?
In regards to receiving info from the society about this matter, don't hold your breath. They will not come out and openly admit to this unless they first think up of an excuse to smooth things over. You will not be able to overpower them with any fancy reasonings or words, the same way Jesus couldn't de-throne the Scribes and Pharisees of his day. We are powerless to do anything, that is why Jehovah must deal with them for straying from true worship. Just don't lose your peace over the matter.
On the matter of trying to convert your friends to take their stance against the Society, keep in mind that you will convince some, but you will not be able to convince many. Jesus with all his powerful works and reasonings could not convince the majority back in Jerusalem, and they eventually killed him because of their lack of reasoning and discernment. Do not lose your peace over the matter, simply move on to the next individual. As Jesus said in Mathew 10: 13, "If the house is deserving, let the peace you wish it come upon it; but if it is not deserving, let the peace from you return upon you".
Keep up the good work.