Well, this is a little weird. Here goes.
Two frat twins. Both boys. Grew up theocratic. One gave in to pressures and baptized at 13 but the other didn't. As the boys grew older their hormones kicked-in. They both got into girl troubles.
To make a long story short, the baptized twin got df-ed for fornication at 15. He goes to meetings, sits in the back, and everybody shuns him, he can't talk to anybody, he can't go anywhere, and nobody talks to him in the house. The unbaptized twin who laid on more girls than his brother during the same time period, and even got one girl one pregnant, didn't even get so much as a public reproof. But the unbaptized twin can go to meetings and sits with his parents, gets to talk to everybody in the kingdom hall, gets to go to gatherings and parties, and he can talk with his parents in the house.
The baptized twin, starving for association and quite depressed as a loser, became antisocial. But he was reached by a good guidence counseler in high school who took him under his wing and became his mentor. He picked-up his grades, joined a positive christian youth organization, cleaned-up his act, did very well in the remaining two years of his schooling, ended up going to college on partial scholarship. But he is still df and wants nothing to do with JWs. His parents goes to visit with him in secret. While they fear the elders, they know that this situation with their son is so wrong.
The unbaptized twin did pretty well in the congregation. Never baptised - and thankful. Confidential rumor (if there is such a thing) being that his parents never encouraged him to do so. Can you blame them? Well, he left home and got married at 18. Doing ok. Comes to the meetings every once in a while just for old times. As soon as he walks in he his greeted with open arms. Deep inside he condemns them all because if his brother were to walk in they would give him the cold shoulder. And he did worse than his brother!
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Sorry -- ended up a long story anyway.