complications and confusion

by Vivamus 18 Replies latest jw friends

  • Vivamus
    Vivamus

    Why is life so complicated at times? I thought I had it all sorted out...friends, kissing friends, non friends, etc. People should stick with the label I give them damnit. People are not supposted to change from a normal friend into a kissing friend. My life is getting far to complicated and confusing this way.

    I don't know what to do anymore.

    Edited by - Vivamus on 11 November 2002 5:4:5

  • Matty
    Matty

    Well, you have lots of friends who care a lot about you and are entranced by your magnetic personality. Ahem, there's a problem there?!?! My label is "Viv's peculiar English friend", and I've stuck to that role pretty well.

    Just do a bit of straight-talking, I know you can do it! You do pretty well, you're honest with your friends, so tell them your worries and fears, tell them how you feel, and as long as they know where they stand then it's their fault if they think they have a different role to what you want them to have.

    Hugs

  • SYN
    SYN

    Who can blame them?

    And remember, sometimes you'll want to change from a normal friend into a kissing friend yourself, but they won't want you to.

    It's always best to put yourself in someone else's shoes first.

  • fulano
    fulano

    Just kiss everyone, that's easy!

  • Vivamus
    Vivamus

    No, I wanted the change from normal to a kissing friend. And now that I've got what I wanted, I'm confused.

  • TisInYourWishbone
    TisInYourWishbone

    My goodness if that is the threshold of your capacity to becomming confused then you have been confused all your life.

  • Vivamus
    Vivamus

    Welcome to the board. Nope, it's more complicated than that. First time actually I have been confused like this.

  • TisInYourWishbone
    TisInYourWishbone

    With the exception of your gracious welcome i would have guessed you were 11 and1/2 years of age or does "kissing friend" have some profound hidden meaning?

  • Vivamus
    Vivamus

    Who the heck are you? And no, not 11, but I'm stuck at 17.

  • Vivamus
    Vivamus

    By the way,

    LOL @ Matty and @ Fulano.

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