She's a thief, pure and simple. It doesn't matter what she took from you. I would be very upset too. The nerve of the husband to defend her and accuse you ! I don't know if telling the police would do any good... But what about a letter to the editor ? Something to the effect that one can't even trust a JW to be honest, even though they claim in their door-to-door visits that if everybody belonged to their religion, the world would be such a great place...
I made a lot of blackberry jams this summer. We had a bumper crop of blackberries in our Vermont woods this year... I wished it wasn't that difficult (breakable) and expensive to send jars in the mail or UPS... I would send you 4 or 5 jars...