I was always hoping to find the perfect combination between hottie, spiritual, and intelligent. Fortunately for me, all the single brothers in my congregation were gorgeous. Not a bad looking one in the bunch. Not many of them were intelligent though. And since I go for guys with big brains, I married a hot, spiritual and intelligent worldly person. Oh, if only some of the hot, intelligent, men on this DB had been in my congregation
I was, like, an uber-JW, and I guess it just never occurred to me (as a kid, VERY mind controlled) that there were different 'levels' of spirituality.
So, I was looking for a cutie, since, after all, any JW sister who was a cutie must ALSO be very spiritual (since ALL JWs were spiritual, except the ones 'satan' got a hold of, but they were always quickly found out and DF'd Yeah, I know....)
I always looked for the cute ones - I always thought that was more important. And I wasn't into all the strict JW stuff either. I was planning on staying a JW, but wanted a wife who would go out to a concert or a bar and who would be a bit kinky. I was looking for a girl who was cute and was going to stay a JW, but with a little bit of a bad side.
And I found a few too. Unbeknownst to me, there were probably a lot more of those than I thought.
In the end, I'm glad I never wound up with a JW wife. Never know whether she would have left the org with me or would have wanted to return someday. Now I'm happily married to a woman who has all the important qualities and is a great friend.
You mean, you did not intend to take the org's books to heart about the 'proper' way for a married couple to physically manifest their 'special arrangement' created by god?
Apparently I wasn't of "marriageable" (is that a word?) age, even though I was definitely of "hornyeable" (that's definitely not a word) age. So, this discrepancy (SP?) led me to doing a bit of "external reconnaisance", outside the walls of the Hall. Stuff happened. I DAd. End of story. LOL.