Shunned Father
We are sorry to hear of your situation.
Re:The Kingdom Ministry sheet that Simon has scanned for you, just to add a few points :-
Paragraph 1 " first let us review what the bible says on this subject...." then they immediately tie disfellowshipping in with disassociation.
We have never found this in the bible.
Paragraph 2 "where they (the WT) imply that the tax collectors were to be treated as outcasts, likening them to disfellowshipped/disassociated ones.
Mark 2:14 and Luke 18:11-14, shows Jesus and the bible's viewpoint on this subject.
KT