Well, I must say that my life outside of the organisation is far more richer and fullfilling than it ever was with those on the inside. I find that my expectations of others are far more reasonable now than they ever were.
I am ashamed of the fact that I was blinded by their dogma, that the rest of the world was evil.
Since I have left all of that behind, I find real joy in treating people on a more equal basis and accepting others for what they are and not what they believe in.
Oh yes, I also know people that lie, that fornicate, that are gay. But they do not pretend otherwise.
I could name more hypocrites in the congregation that I left than in my worldly circles.